Here’s how you know if you’ve really given a relationship your all… ask yourself this.

“Did I try my best?”

If the answer is yes, you did everything you could have, and maybe if it went bad, it’s doesn’t mean anything about you, and more about them.

Lean in for more kisses and take more risks or you’ll look back on it all and be disappointed.

Something people don’t know about me is that I’m an ENTP personality type.

It’s maybe 2% of the population.

But as an ENTP… I HATE small talk.

I’m not good at it.

I hate it.

Do NOT try to chit chat with me!!

This disdain for ordinary, average, and safe small talk is an advantage I have, and I would encourage others to incorporate into (some) interactions.

While small talk has its place, and though I wish I could not be disgusted by it and practice it, by avoiding it, I and others can develop more meaningful connections, and develop interest and romantic attraction much faster.

Look at your conversations and test this recommendation.

Remember, I do TWO things.

1. I never have conversations that don’t interest me.

2. I avoid the small talk conversations and thus stand out from the pack. This DOES mean taking the lead in directing the topics of conversation.

I do believe in never giving up on trying to find your “true love”, but my heart has also been hardened by countless betrayals, mostly from those I once called my best friends.

However, we must actively convince ourselves that we can better ourselves as to draw in those that truly belong in our lives.

Sex, like a lot of things, is the medium, it is NOT the message.

Ask yourself what is being communicated via sex?