What do you want?
What do you want to be happy?
Some people might say “why do I need to have relationship goals?
But when I ask those people I find that they might have a goal, and that goal might be to “be happy” or even “to not have a goal” (STILL A GOAL).
With goals, we have to get SUPER SPECIFIC.
What do you want?
What do you ACTUALLY want?
The more detail the better.
I’ve had enough of people giving me average goals that they don’t actually want.
“I just want to be loved.”
What the hell does love look like to you?
Does it mean having somebody to listen or does it mean a Tuesday night boyfriend?
It’s so different from person to person that YOU NEED TO BE SPECIFIC.
Exiled Writer 